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Happiness heals everything around us!

Ever wondered why people get upset with others? Have you ever noticed that there are very few people who would actually get upset with themselves first? Do you know why?

Okay, let’s talk about your relationship with yourself before we talk about others. 

There is no mystery to the fact that it all starts with you! Your happiness starts with you and your relationship with others depends on the relationship you have with yourself. Whatever you feed to your mind, body and soul; you become and act accordingly.

For instance, if you are not happy with your way of talking, you won’t be able to communicate properly with anybody. That’s because unless that habit is changed, you will keep feeling frustrated and unappreciated. The more you tell yourself you are not good at communicating with people, the more you exhibit the lack of confidence in your daily meetups and conversations. And this will keep degrading you at a level where you are no longer happy with your whole life just because you think you are bad at communicating or you may start blaming others in order to feel superior over them and end up being lonely.

On the other hand, if you start practicing in front of mirror on a daily basis, there are high chances that you improve within a week or may be a month or two. And soon you start feeling good about yourself, in fact, you will start feeling confident enough to communicate with anyone and everyone around you. They may even compliment you for your communication skills later. Now everyone who was feeling low or hesitant before, is now feeling motivated by your initiative of communicating with them because they saw the change in you, the sparkle in your eyes. And, that’s how you invite more happiness into your life by taking that one small step! See! How blessed you are now!

Now why did I keep the title as ‘Healing the Unhealed’?

So, the happiness is the core element in our lives that can do wonders and sometimes it is miraculous!! Let me explain how.

An unhealed person is the person who isn’t happy within their being. And this unhealed person has a trauma that triggers the rage within them. This trauma can be anything huge or petty including lack of finances, trust issues, concern over career, family background, exploitation or any relationship complications.

So how does a person get healed? One act of kindness can bring the smile back on someone’s face and they start healing in one way or the other. An act of love and happiness can bring an immeasurable joy to someone’s life.

You may see several examples in your daily life. For instance, when a child is begging for food on the streets and you provide them with ample amount of food right on time. Have you seen that expression on that kid’s face? You would treasure that moment for whole life. That’s just unforgettable for that child.

So when do people feel at ease? It’s when they are genuinely happy. When a person is happy, he/she would find reasons to be more grateful for what they have. And, this improves their relationship with not just others but also with themselves and that’s called healing from within. The happier you are, the happier others become because of you when you interact with them while showing that zeal towards life. In short, by healing yourself, you heal others.