Begin with the End in Mind

Spring enters as soon as autumn is about to bid a leave. Have you ever been upset thinking about the end which couldn’t be in good terms with your past? Have you ever thought of ending that bad ass game of daily politics in office? Or ending the give and take relation with that toxic neighbour of yours? Or ending that era of hesitation and shyness that you were holding on to until today? Or may be that toxic relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend because it was not a true love to begin with?

Endings are healthy and necessary for the new beginnings to prosper and bring abundance in one’s life. We might not yet understand their positive impact, we must give our best in being comfortable in the unknown until we receive our next steps along the way.

Life is beautiful“, we have heard of this phrase so many times that we’ll loose the count if we were to count the numbers. Right? Well, Wrong!! How many of your friends, family or relatives have ever said this one short phrase while feeling the sense of it in front of you? Perhaps, very few to nobody. The reason being, we all are entangled with our worries for the future and engrossed in the guilt from the past in such a way that we forget to embrace the beauty around us that we are blessed with on daily basis. When was the last time you were grateful for having the beautiful & healthy body and sense of love not just towards your loved ones but, yourself? Often, we forget to pat on our back while being able to come this far in our lives where some people are yet to reach. Then, when do we potentially begin our beautiful days and where does it all end?

There is only one answer to all that confusion. Still, it can never compare to our individual experiences. And the answer is, ”Embrace yourself before you embrace your challenges and accept your flaws before anybody reminds you. And work towards bringing the change in yourself before trying to change your circumstances. This is where the scarcity ends and the beginnings prosper. Because there is no other life like this and there is no other blessing bigger than this.

A beautiful tip for you while dealing with the various endings and beginnings is to journal what went wrong while ending any chapter of one’s life. Reflect on what you did wrong and wait for some time before you jump on to a new beginning of another chapter. Unless you end the previous chapter with a deep understanding, you wont be able to make sense out of the new chapter which holds the clarity on your life’s purpose and beyond. Begin every chapter with the end in your mind, not the one that probably would happen, but, the magnificent one, that you want to be conspired by the whole universe.

After all, everything has to end one day or the other.

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